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July 10, 2007

Love on Campus

Why we should understand, and even encourage, a certain sort of erotic intensity between student and professor.

William Deresiewicz in The American Scholar:

Currentcover2The absentminded professor, that kindly old figure, is long gone. A new image has taken his place, one that bespeaks not only our culture’s hostility to the mind, but also its desperate confusion about the nature of love.

Look at recent movies about academics, and a remarkably consistent pattern emerges. In The Squid and the Whale (2005), Jeff Daniels plays an English professor and failed writer who sleeps with his students, neglects his wife, and bullies his children. In One True Thing (1998), William Hurt plays an English professor and failed writer who sleeps with his students, neglects his wife, and bullies his children. In Wonder Boys (2000), Michael Douglas plays an English professor and failed writer who sleeps with his students, has just been left by his third wife, and can’t commit to the child he’s conceived in an adulterous affair with his chancellor. Daniels’s character is vain, selfish, resentful, and immature. Hurt’s is vain, selfish, pompous, and self-pitying. Douglas’s is vain, selfish, resentful, and self-pitying. Hurt’s character drinks. Douglas’s drinks, smokes pot, and takes pills. All three men measure themselves against successful writers (two of them, in Douglas’s case; his own wife, in Daniels’s) whose presence diminishes them further. In We Don’t Live Here Anymore (2004), Mark Ruffalo and Peter Krause divide the central role: both are English professors, and both neglect and cheat on their wives, but Krause plays the arrogant, priapic writer who seduces his students, Ruffalo the passive, self-pitying failure. A Love Song For Bobby Long (2004) divides the stereotype a different way, with John Travolta as the washed-up, alcoholic English professor, Gabriel Macht as the blocked, alcoholic writer.

More here.

Posted by Abbas Raza at 05:16 PM | Permalink

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Since the writer is at Yale, he might note that one of that schools best-known luminaries had an article about his philandering ways and how he was playful with her. She is now a fairly well-known writer. That said, I suggest as a corrective the magnificent book Stoner, a novel about a good English teacher, no great scholar, whose bad marriage has him getting close to a grad student. But he will not end his marriage and accepts the burden of his choice and his marriage (for better or worse). Ps:I married a student and we are now married 24 years.

Posted by: fred lapides | Jul 10, 2007 6:10:40 PM

Wow, Fred, way to totally miss the point. If you read carefully, you'll notice that the author was NOT advocating infidelity.

Posted by: Nick Smyth | Jul 10, 2007 6:41:02 PM

i understood that...I began my note because the Yale "case" got major writeup in some national papers. Teachers taking advantage of students (back then) was not unusual but a very shabby thing.

Posted by: fred lapides | Jul 10, 2007 10:37:27 PM

Thanks, Abbas, for publishing this piece. I never reflected on the degree to which American society is sexualizing perversely the fusion of attraction and intellect that real teaching and learning requires.

Posted by: Michael Blim | Jul 11, 2007 9:37:13 AM

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